Totally agree. Cup half full is always a better approach for ourselves as it affects how we react with others and keeps our mind positive. Yes, nice is good.
I think it's easy to be either nice/kind to yourself (having boundaries) OR others. The trick in life is finding a way to be both. If you can do that, you're a true bad-ass, in a good way.
Having boundaries is definitely key. I think you’re right too on the obtaining balance. I sway like a pendulum. Settling centre is a skill to aspire to!
When I was younger, I was all about being kind to others at the expense of myself. I'm now much, much better at boundaries, but I try hard to still be kind to others even while saying no to them sometimes. It's a work in progress.
Totally agree. Cup half full is always a better approach for ourselves as it affects how we react with others and keeps our mind positive. Yes, nice is good.
Yes, definitely with you on that, Chris. Thanks for bothering to comment here.
I think it's easy to be either nice/kind to yourself (having boundaries) OR others. The trick in life is finding a way to be both. If you can do that, you're a true bad-ass, in a good way.
Having boundaries is definitely key. I think you’re right too on the obtaining balance. I sway like a pendulum. Settling centre is a skill to aspire to!
Thanks for taking time to comment, Rebecca.
When I was younger, I was all about being kind to others at the expense of myself. I'm now much, much better at boundaries, but I try hard to still be kind to others even while saying no to them sometimes. It's a work in progress.
I guess it is for most of us. Except for people who don’t try to be nice of course!
True that!
I agree, it's good to be nice. Things would be a lot better all around, if more people were nice to each other.
Thanks, Juliet.
I wonder why ‘nice’ is regarded with such disdain? When I had a brief on line look, there were some vitriolic things said about people being nice!
Appreciate you making the effort to always comment on my posts, Juliet.