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Hey Debbie

I hear you! And I feel YOU!

Being going through the same, not my sis (as don't have one) but my daughter.

My motivation has dropped to ground 0. I have two commission works I need to do... But just can't find the gears to push onward. It's summer here in New Zealand and reasonable hot. So I should be outside gardening which I really enjoy. Or swimming, maybe! Lol

My bed is my sanctuary at the moment. It doesn't want to relieve me from it's clutches.

But I endure and get my ass out of bed and start my day. Whatever hour that maybe.

Then my coffee starts calling me..which means I have to get up to make it.. and wha la I am vertical. Push one leg after the other and before I know I am walking. Lol

So I find the happy things in life to keep going. And always the funny side as well. Laughter makes me feel better.

I enjoy your blogs., articles and posts.

You are an amazing strong woman, who is rocking this world your own way. Keep it up x

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So sorry to hear your current circumstances, Michelle.

Finding the little bits of joy in the wealth of grief is certainly the best approach I can think of too. Every day does have something to commend it if we can look beyond ourselves, which isn’t always easy. My husband and my dog make me laugh, so that’s a bonus. I’m glad you can find something to smile about too.

The doggy has a routine that is difficult to vary, so I have to be up before 8am every day, otherwise who knows when I’d manage to get up!

I hope you can find some resolution to some of the things that are difficult and that you mojo makes a return too. Be kind to yourself. Maybe some of the generous suggestions from Anna can be applied to your situation too? Sounds like you’re doing what you can to be through. I hope you have people who you can talk to. Do feel free to message if you need to.

Thank you for engaging here. It makes a difference to know that people are reading and enjoying my random writings.

xx

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